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- Before I Share My Story, There’s Something You Need to Understand About Healing
Healing isn’t failing — it’s often misunderstood. This post offers context before personal stories are shared, exploring why healing advice doesn’t always land and how timing, safety, and nervous system readiness matter - Note from the author
There comes a moment in healing when you realize you’re no longer tending to the wounds of your inner child — you’re standing as the woman she grew into. For a long time, speaking the truth felt like survival. Silence felt dangerous. Not because I was hiding anything — but because I was taught thatContinue reading “Note from the author” - What People Pleasing Really Is: A Trauma Response Born in a Childhood That Never Felt Safe
Intro: People often misunderstand people-pleasing. They think it means you’re “too nice” or “too giving.” But people-pleasing is not a personality trait—it’s a survival strategy learned in childhood when your emotional needs were ignored, mocked, dismissed, or punished. A child who grows up unseen and unheard does not learn resilience; they learn adaptation. They learnContinue reading “What People Pleasing Really Is: A Trauma Response Born in a Childhood That Never Felt Safe” - When Your Life Is Built on Beliefs That Aren’t YoursFor a long time, I didn’t realize that not all beliefs are self-generated. Some are inherited. Some are absorbed. Some are taught so early and so consistently that we never question where they came from — we just assume they’re truth. We’re told how life is supposed to look. How work should feel. What successContinue reading “When Your Life Is Built on Beliefs That Aren’t Yours”